A debt your partner had before your relationship stays your partner debt. Under Dutch law you become liable for it only if you sign for it, guarantee it or refinance it in both names, or through the joint and several liability that article 1:85 of the Burgerlijk Wetboek (Civil Code) imposes on spouses and registered partners for ordinary household expenses. What changes the moment you move in together is not who owes the money but what a creditor can practically reach: a joint bank account, goods found in a shared home, and the borrowing capacity you have as a couple.
The second question is just as important and is usually asked too late: is the old claim still enforceable at all. Dutch limitation periods are short, and a claim that has expired cannot be enforced through the courts, but the rules on interruption are easy to trigger by accident, and a single payment made to keep the peace can revive a claim that was already dead. This article sets out both sides: when a partner debt can reach you, and how to establish whether the debt still exists in law.
Can your partner old debt become yours
Start with the relationship form, because the rules differ sharply. Unmarried cohabitants have no statutory liability for each other debts at all. Liability arises only where you assumed it: a lease or utility contract in both names, a co-signed loan, a guarantee, or a joint mortgage. That is a reassuring rule, and it is also why the details of what you sign in the first months of living together matter more than anything else in this article.
Spouses and registered partners are in a different position on one point. Article 1:85 of the Civil Code makes each of them jointly and severally liable for debts entered into by the other for the ordinary running of the household: the weekly shopping, the energy bill, the children clothes, the family doctor. Debts that fall outside the ordinary household, and business debts, do not bind the other partner. It is worth knowing that this liability can be excluded for the future by a notarial deed that is registered in the public matrimonial property register, although in practice it is rarely used.
Marriage itself no longer merges everything. Since 1 January 2018 a marriage or registered partnership concluded without prenuptial agreements creates a limited community of property: what each partner already owned, and what each already owed, stays private, as do gifts and inheritances. Debts your partner brought into the marriage therefore remain personal debts. The qualification is that a creditor holding such a private debt may in principle also recover from the assets of the community, in which case the other spouse can require the debtor spouse private assets to be used first and is entitled to compensation from the community. If you marry without prenuptial agreements while one of you has significant arrears, that is the mechanism that hurts, and it is the reason to record what each of you brought in. Our overview of በጋብቻ ውስጥ እና በኋላ ያለው ንብረት sets out the regimes in more detail.
One further protection cuts the other way and is easy to overlook. Article 1:88 of the Civil Code requires the written consent of the other spouse or registered partner for a guarantee or suretyship given outside the normal course of a business, and for a mortgage on the family home. If your partner gives a guarantee for a friend company without your consent, you can annul it. Keep the point in mind before you sign a consent form you have not read.
When is an old debt time-barred
Dutch limitation periods are shorter than most people expect, and they differ by the nature of the claim. The general rule for a claim to perform a contractual obligation is five years, running from the day following the day on which the claim became due and payable. Claims for amounts payable by the year or in shorter instalments, such as rent, interest and instalments under a credit agreement, also expire after five years from the day following the day each instalment fell due. A claim in damages expires five years after the day following the day on which the injured party became aware of both the damage and the person liable, and in any event twenty years after the event that caused it.
Two special rules do a lot of work in practice. Under article 7:28 of the Civil Code, a seller claim for the purchase price in a consumer sale expires after two years, which covers a great many webshop, telecom and retail arrears, and the Supreme Court has extended that short period to a credit agreement sufficiently connected with such a sale. And once a creditor has obtained a judgment the picture changes: the power to enforce a judgment lapses after twenty years, while amounts that fall due periodically under it, such as running interest, expire after five years. So the first question to ask about any old file is not how much is claimed but whether a court has ever ruled on it.
Some claims follow their own regime altogether. Tax debts, benefit overpayments and administrative fines are governed by public law rather than by the Civil Code, with their own periods and their own enforcement route, and the tax authorities can enforce without first obtaining a judgment. Do not apply the five-year contractual rule to a letter from the Belastingdienst.
What resets the clock
A limitation period is interrupted by three things, and after an interruption a new period begins. The first is legal action: issuing a summons or another act of prosecution of the claim. The second is a written notice from the creditor that unambiguously reserves its right to performance, under article 3:317 of the Civil Code; a demand that merely asks for payment without reserving rights is not automatically enough, but most professional collection letters are drafted to satisfy the test. The third, and the dangerous one, is acknowledgment by the debtor.
Acknowledgment does not require a formal document. A part payment, a payment made under a payment arrangement, a wage deduction accepted without protest, an email asking for time to pay, or a request for a payment plan can all count as recognising the debt, and each starts a fresh period. This is why the single most valuable piece of advice in this field is to verify before you communicate: ask the collector for the contract, the invoices, the assignment documentation and the dated evidence of any earlier interruption, and until you have it, correspond in writing and without acknowledging liability. Do not make a goodwill payment on a claim you have not verified.
The burden of proving an interruption lies with the creditor. If a collector asserts that a letter was sent in a particular year, it must produce it. Where the file has passed through several collection agencies, the evidence often turns out to be incomplete, and that is exactly the situation in which a claim from the distant past falls away.
A time-barred debt does not simply disappear
Two consequences of expiry are regularly misunderstood. The first is that a court may not apply limitation of its own motion: the debtor has to invoke it. If you are summoned and do not appear, or appear and do not raise the point, judgment can be given on a claim that was time-barred, and once there is a judgment you are dealing with a twenty-year enforcement power instead. Ignoring court papers is therefore the worst possible response to an old debt.
The second is that expiry converts the obligation into a natural obligation rather than extinguishing it. The creditor can no longer enforce it, but if you pay anyway you cannot reclaim the money on the ground that you were not obliged to pay. That is another reason not to make a payment before the position has been checked. A collection agency is also entitled to keep asking you to pay a time-barred debt, provided it does not threaten enforcement it cannot lawfully pursue; a letter is not evidence that the claim is enforceable.
What a collection agency may actually charge
Extrajudicial collection costs are regulated. For a consumer debt, they can only be claimed after the creditor has sent a compliant fourteen-day letter: a written reminder stating the principal sum due, giving a full period of fourteen days counted from the day after the letter was delivered, warning that collection costs will be added if payment is not made within that period, and stating the amount of those costs. If that letter was never sent, or was defective in one of those elements, the collection costs are not owed and you can pay the principal alone. The amount itself is fixed by a statutory decree on a sliding scale calculated on the principal, with a statutory minimum, and it may not be calculated over interest or over earlier costs.
Three practical rules follow. Only one set of extrajudicial costs may be charged for the same debt, however many collection agencies have handled the file. Once a bailiff is enforcing a judgment, the statutory enforcement tariffs apply and pre-court collection costs may not be charged again on top of them. And you are entitled to an itemised statement separating principal, interest with the applicable rate and periods, and costs. Ask for it in writing, because a padded balance is a great deal easier to dispute than to reclaim.
When the bailiff appears
A gerechtsdeurwaarder (bailiff) is a public officer and can only enforce on the basis of an enforceable title, normally a judgment served on the debtor, or a writ of execution issued by an administrative body such as the tax authorities. The first thing to ask for is the title and proof of service. Without one, you are still dealing with ordinary collection and the previous sections apply.
With a title, three forms of enforcement matter. Attachment under a third party, served on the employer, the benefits agency or the bank, is the most common and the most effective; where income is attached, the bailiff must observe the beslagvrije voet, the protected minimum income, which since the reform that took effect on 1 January 2021 is calculated automatically from official data. Attachment of movable property in the home is the second. Here the position of a new partner becomes concrete: the bailiff may attach goods found in the debtor home, and it is for the owner to establish that they are not the debtor property. Keep invoices, bank transfers and a dated inventory signed by both of you; a third party whose goods have been attached can oppose the attachment before the court. The third is attachment of the home itself, which in practice follows the mortgagee action rather than the bailiff.
A bailiff may not force entry to a home on their own authority: that requires the permission of the occupant or authorisation from the kantonrechter, and the police must be present. There is also room to challenge: enforcement can be suspended in summary proceedings where the title is defective, where the wrong person is being pursued, or where enforcement in the circumstances constitutes an abuse of right. Those applications are urgent by nature, so take advice the same day rather than the following week. Where a claim for damages lies behind the file, our የጉዳት የይገባኛል ጥያቄዎች page explains how such a claim is established, and our ተጠያቂነት ጠበቆች assess whether the underlying liability exists at all.
Practical protection when you move in together
The measures that work are unglamorous and have to be taken before there is pressure. Record who owns what. A dated inventory signed by both partners, kept with the invoices and the bank transfers that paid for the items, is the document that stops a discussion at the front door. Keep the banking separate: individual accounts for individual income, and if you want a joint account for shared costs, keep it without an overdraft facility and fund it monthly, because a creditor of one partner can attach the whole balance and the other partner then has to prove what was theirs.
Be deliberate about contracts. Where one partner has a history of arrears, putting the tenancy, the energy contract and the telephone subscription in the other name only is a legitimate arrangement; adding the partner as a user rather than as a co-debtor is not evasion, it is simply not creating a new liability. Above all, do not co-sign, do not guarantee and do not refinance an old personal debt into a joint loan. Refinancing is the single most common way in which one partner debt becomes two partners debt, and it is irreversible.
A cohabitation agreement drawn up by a notary is worth the cost once you share a home or a mortgage. It records separate property, how the household costs are shared, what happens to the home if you separate, and what each of you contributed. If you marry or enter into a registered partnership, prenuptial agreements do the same job and can also be made during the relationship. Note the difference between arranging your affairs and defeating a creditor: transferring an asset to your new partner for nothing while a creditor is at the door is a voluntary act that prejudices that creditor and can be annulled through the actio pauliana, with the asset returning to the estate. The line between lawful planning and an attackable transfer is drawn in our article on asset protection in the Netherlands, and if a business is involved as well, in our note on the የቤተሰብ ንግድ. Before signing anything a partner puts in front of you, read our checklist on how to ውል መፈረም እና የተደበቁ የህግ ጉዳዮችን ያስወግዱ.
Joint borrowing and credit registration
If a joint mortgage or a shared loan is on the horizon, look at the credit registration first. Dutch credit providers report loans, credit cards, mail order credit and arrears to the Stichting BKR, and a lender assessing a joint application looks at both applicants. Each partner can request their own overview from the BKR and check every entry against the underlying file; a coding that does not correspond to reality should be disputed in writing with the institution that registered it, because the BKR itself only records what the lender reports.
A registration that is correct can still be removed in some circumstances. Because the registration is processing of personal data, a request for erasure or an objection is assessed under the General Data Protection Regulation: the legitimate interest of the credit system in preventing over-indebtedness is weighed against the interests of the person registered, and the outcome depends on proportionality in the individual case, including whether the arrears have been settled, how long ago they arose and what concrete disadvantage the registration causes now. The Supreme Court has confirmed that such a claim can also be brought in summary proceedings, which matters when a mortgage application has a deadline. Registrations are retained for a fixed period after the debt has been settled, so timing an application after that period has run is often simpler than litigating.
Debts that come from abroad
An old debt from another country raises two separate questions. The first is whether the claim is valid and still enforceable under the law that governs it, which for a consumer contract is usually the law of the country where the consumer lives, and which determines the limitation period. The second is whether it can be enforced here. Within the European Union a judgment from another member state is recognised and enforceable in the Netherlands without a separate procedure, on production of a certificate from the court of origin, and the EU also provides a European order for payment and a small claims procedure that a foreign creditor can use directly. Outside the EU there is no automatic enforcement: unless a treaty applies, the creditor has to bring fresh proceedings in the Netherlands, in which the Dutch court will normally give effect to the foreign decision if the foreign court had jurisdiction on internationally acceptable grounds, the proceedings were fair and recognition does not conflict with Dutch public policy.
Two cautions apply. Consumers benefit from protective jurisdiction rules within the EU: as a rule a consumer may only be sued in the courts of the member state where they are domiciled, so a summons from a foreign court is worth checking rather than ignoring. And an acknowledgment given abroad can interrupt limitation just as one given here, so the rule about not admitting liability while you verify applies with equal force to correspondence from a foreign collector.
If the debts are genuinely unpayable
Where a partner debts are real, enforceable and beyond their means, the answer is not concealment but a route out. The first step is the amicable route through the municipality, which has a statutory duty to offer debt assistance and can negotiate a settlement with the creditors. If that fails, the court can admit the debtor to the statutory debt restructuring scheme for natural persons, which since 1 July 2023 lasts eighteen months and ends, if the obligations have been complied with, in a clean slate for the remaining debts.
Admission requires the court to be satisfied that the debtor acted in good faith in relation to the incurring and non-payment of the debts in the preceding five years. That is precisely why the temptation to move assets or to take on new credit in a partner name is so damaging: it can close the only real exit. For a new partner, the practical point is that a scheme of this kind concerns your partner debts and your partner income, not yours, provided the finances have been kept separate and no joint obligations have been created.
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Law and More advises individuals and couples on exactly these questions: whether an old claim is still enforceable, whether an alleged interruption stands up, whether collection costs have been correctly charged, how to respond to a bailiff and how to challenge an attachment, and how to arrange a cohabitation agreement or prenuptial agreement so that each partner position is clear before a problem arises. We also act for creditors, which means we know how the other side builds its file. If you have received a demand, a summons or notice of an attachment, or you are about to combine your finances with a partner who has a debt history, you can reach our team through ዌብሳይታችን.
